Strong Souls

Distance apart, when we are limited only to texts and rare calls each word means so much for me. I believe that you will also be thinking at the same time when I think of you. So we are on this journey of thoughts together. When you mean everything for me distance is nothing. Thanks for each precious moment you gave my baby! loads of love 🥰❣

एक बच्चे को बच्चा ही रहने दो / Let A Child Be A Child

एक बच्चे कोबच्चा ही रहने दोसांसारिकता से दूरउसे अपने ‘बचपन’ काभरपूर आनंद बस लेने दो.. मत छीनो उसकाउससे विश्वासउसका प्यार, स्नेहऔर उसकी मासूमियत.. क्योंकि वे ही मिलने वाले हैंहमें कई गुना कई प्रकार सेजब वह कदम रखते हैंभविष्य की जिंदगी मेंइन्हीं भावनाओं के साथअपने अंदर एक ‘बच्चे’ के साथ.. (यह देखा गया है कि एक […]

एक बच्चे को बच्चा ही रहने दो / Let A Child Be A Child

The Feeling of PAIN

I can see the courage and strength  behind your words of wounds. I know those are healed but my pain is feeling of your’s when they bleeded. How can lips explain where the heart wanted to speak?? It hurts to accept the continuation of these unfinished conversations between two hearts, that’s ok….✍🥰

Did you ever apologize your kid?

My cutie pie’s new born 👣

I do apologize my kid almost every day. It’s necessarily not that I hurt and yell at her every time but to make her understand the feeling of being sorry and forgiveness. whenever I look in to her eyes and glance at her cute, innocent face. I would pamper and ask her to hug me tight. The moment  she does it, I feel like my wings got opened and would reach god to thank for the gracious gift that I am blessed with. Her tiny hands around  really makes me feel good and stressfree. It’s a boundless joy!

This will give me a chance to calm down myself, get the peace to identify the triggers that causes my mind to yell at her which makes the situation worst and not better at all. Yet, it takes place sometimes when I get into extreme stress but I would realize it when she tunes back, my face flushes with shame and I would remain silent saying ” I am Sorry”.

Sometimes I recall and hate the angry Mom within me realizing my blunder behavior. I am well aware of the things that make me mad enough to yell at. I am trying to identify the hotspots that give me peace so that I can calm down myself and work on to improve. When I share my guilty feelings with my husband, tears would sprang into my eyes and question me why do I allow my temper to be dominant over my love and caring response to the little one. Writing these lines is really causing more pain but someone might have something to take away while they get time to read this.

Children will never listen to what we try to teach but they are always very good to imitate us, so we need to be very careful while we handle them. “There’s always a re-action for each action that we do” in front of Kids. We should always focus on what they need to do instead of what they need to stop. That would be a teachable moment at the tough parenting situation to turn into a chance to improve ourselves to build a strong relationship with our kids and help them learn life skills.

Kids will model the behavior they see, I have noticed it on my own child. We all know this life will not allow always the choices or the way we want. We just have to accept the way it is. In the same way let us accept our kids too for a while the way they are and what they wanted to mess up with but extending it for more time is not at all a good idea especially in public places.

So take a deep breath and acknowledge then and there with queit affirmation that they need to avoid being stubborn and listen to us. Make them understand with calm and cool voice, no matter how good or bad parents that we are going to be but kids will always make their own choices but being a parent it’s our responsibility to be aware of the influence that they will have in life. So we will affect them by being both good and bad parenting skills keeping the balance in mind.

To build an emotional bond with our kids, we should always keep healthy communications as we know how it affects their emotional and mental health. Sometimes they miss that emotional touch from parents in current busy lifestyle. We are the one who needs to identify that and pay attention to emphasize their needs apart from food and plays up to certain age.

Sometimes we may not find answer to whether we are parenting right, that’s ok. As long as we know that we are holding our little ones in our hearts and have to be careful, God will definitely look after the rest if you believe in him. “God will never give up on a Child neither we should be” ….✍

Thank you a for your valuable time to visit and read this through. Have a lovely time! 🥰

Star of my Heart

“You are the ‘Star of my heart’ and would remain twinkling in every beat of it my sweet heart. I am tired off fighting with my thoughts to stop thinking of you. I am not wondering whether I am in your thougts. You are adorable and made my heart smile, I am extremely fond of you my baby. I am just loving the sweet pain of missing you and dwelling in your thoughts and memories with empty smile 😊

How many of you love to write love poetry?? Every one may be. Did you ever fall in love with someone?? If yes, don’t you agree to say that Love is the real drug? of course most of us or every one of us must have tasted the feel of Love either it’s a success or failure. Isn’t it?

There are people who really get to change their lifestyle all of a sudden and feel very motivated and positive knowing that the person they love deeply is being their side with no measurable reasons. That too now a days the effect of social media ” waiting for the favorite notification of that special one is amazingly crazy feeling which makes the wings open to fly in the air with beautiful thoughts of love.

Here is the important note that I would like to share. People do get lost themselves when they get in to deep love and would feel no hunger and appetite. Did you know why and how? Finding love already is not easy. And once we find it, we always wonder if it’s really the right one. When we are in a relationship with someone who really matches us, certain things happen.

Reason: High levels of dopamine and a related hormone, norepinephrine, are released during attraction. These chemicals make us giddy, energetic, and euphoric, even leading to decreased appetite and insomnia – which means that someone actually can be so deep “in love” that they can’t eat and sleep. We do hear often such feelings from friends or people who are experiencing the sweetest feel of Love right? Or even you might have been in the same situation at times you were in love for sure. 😇

Thank you all for your time to read this short information that I know and felt to share. Have a good time! 🥰

Silent days

My days are silent but not the plans towards “my Goal”. From the day when my wish has turned in to a goal, it’s commanding my thoughts, liberating my energy and inspiring my hope. Of course it’s a kind of risking dreams but to make it true and lively✍

Bright Outlook

Your life has a value, do little bit of good where you are, that’s going to be worth living and being loved by the people surround you. Be courageous, this would be the quality of a warrior. Morning is the best time to raise our positive thoughts and affirm to be adorable and Creative. ✍🥰

Miracle Garden

In the miracle garden of my life, you were the classic fountain made my thoughts dance with your sparkling light of music and sprinkling drops of water. Suddenly the fountain stopped sparkling & sprinkling. My thoughts are muted but forever you will be the beautiful Cottage of my heart…. ✍❣

Dear Life

Thanks for choosing me, you know how dominant I am against your actions. Your plans were already expected hence you can’t throw surprises at me. As you are my journey, I am well prepared to travel safe and no more insecure as you taught me to Identify the instinct powers of mine which are invisible but powerful. So please come up with new plans, I will be ready to execute n excel myself. Thank you! 🥰