Life’s experience of a single: 💃

• I am single
• I live alone in my 1BHK apartment
• I own a scooty
• I have completed my PG
• I have a decent job
• I have a healthy life-work balance.
• I have a couple of Real friends
• I am “why coming so late” or “whom you are talking to” or “who you are going out with” free
• I am pretty much healthy and in shape (at least I feel that)
• I am not much of a party person so no wastage of money on weekend clubbing
• I travel at least once a month (2020 was an exception) If going to far-off places is not possible then I explore in and around my city, as there are many beautiful weekend gateways around my city.
• I can cook almost all the north Indian dishes (though I don’t like cooking much).

So, in reality, nothing sucks being single.

Even though there were many ups and downs in the process, I wouldn’t change a thing!

Thanks for reading 😇

Comment section: don’t miss to comment your opinion and insights too😉

Reader 1

( life’s experience of a family man 👪 )

Are you not “ bothered”, to settle with a family and kid/ kids?

Are you not “concerned”about your old age and need of your loved one’s support?

What if you suddenly fall ill while being alone( may God forbid this) and no one to look after you?

What about your daily needs like food and care when you fall ill?

Don’t you think it against the norms of nature?

Please don’t get offended,just curious!!

Reader 2

(Life’s experience of an independent working woman )

Well I believe a man/woman of today wouldn’t be “ bothered “ for kid/kids or No kids

‘coz world is changed. If reproduction is purpose.

one can freeze/buy the fertility tissue/egg Freeze/buy sperm, hire surrogacy and have biological child every year 😬🤓

second, why is the assumption that if a single person fall ill there won’t be anyone?

Isn’t entire Indian society or culture is based on family and friends as family ??

also, it’s better to be taken care in luxury hospital by professional Medical person and not by unhappy person taking care of you and being burden.

Fyi : this is coming from 37 years old Indian female working in IT and earning her own bills and not bothered for any of those that you asked.

also, please don’t take it as offend just sharing views 🤓

My views: I have experienced all the 3 stages and living my married life happily. The blessing of being a natural Mom (I have 2 yrs old kid), no one can price or no money can buy. God’s grace 🙏☺

Source: Quora